Mut'a (Temporary marriage)

Nikah mut'ah is a private and verbal temporary marriage contract that is practiced in Twelver Shia Islam in which the duration of the marriage and the mahr must be specified and agreed upon in advance. It is a private contract made in a verbal or written format.

197460

Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 1 week ago

Mut'a marriage agreement can be recited by the woman and man after they agree on the Mahr and period of the marriage. She should tell him in Arabic : Zawwajtoka Nafsi 'Alal Mahr Al-Ma'loom Lil Modesto Ma'loomah. (Means : I agree to be your Muta wife for the known Mahr and period). The man should reply her saying : Qabilt or Qabilt al Tazweej Linafsi 'Alal Mahril Na'loom Lil Muddatil Ma'loomah. (Meas: I accept the marriage for the known Mahr and period.)

Wassalam.

197061

Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 1 month ago

Mut’ah marriage is not allowed with atheist or Mushrik unless and until she believes in Islam or a holy book like Torah or Bible (to be from People of Book). It is not only reciting the Kalma but more importantly believing that No Gods but Allah and Mohammad is His messenger (to be a Muslim),  or believing in Judaism or Christianity to be from Ahl al-Kitab. With out that, the marriage is invalid.

Wassalam.

196171

Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 1 month ago

Mut'ah is a time fixed Islamic marriage which ends automatically on the end of the agreed time. Both can renew the Mut'ah by reciting another Mut'ah contract with a Mahr and a new period of time if they wish. 
'Wassalam.

195681

Yes, post-menopausal woman does not require to observe Iddah after divorce or termination of a temporary marriage. This rule is only for those women who have no menstruation because of their passing the age of menstruation. This rule does not extend to women who had hysterectomy and no longer menstruate. Such women who are in the age of menstruation require Iddah.

It is worth mentioning that Iddah of Wafat after the death of the husband is obligatory on every wife. It is four months and ten days from her knowledge about his death.

Wassalam.

193694

Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 3 months ago

Both man and woman who want to enter in Mut'ah marriage need to agree between them the period of the contract and the Mahr (Dowry) which is the right of the woman. She starts telling him: ZAWWAJTOKA NAFSIV'ALAL MAHR AL-MA'LOOMAH LILMUDDATIL MA'LOOMAH زوَّجتُكَ نفسي على المهر المعلوم للمدّةآلمعلومة 

He replies her immediately: QABILTU AL-TAZWEEJ LINAFSI 'ALAMAHR AL-M'A'LOOM LIL MUDDATIL MA'LOOMAH. 

'Wassalam.

194889

Bismihi ta'āla

Education is not an obstacle for marriage, and will not hinder a person in finishing their degree. However, why would you plan to do mut'ah. Why don't you marry her, and maybe postpone the wedding and moving in until both of you are ready. At least you will be halal to each other. 

To answer your question, no, it is not allowed to proceed without his consent. Neither of you should even think about taking things into your own hands and doing things outside the conventional way of how people marry. 

Consider all other options, and consult with respectful elders and scholars before you take any steps in this.

And Allah knows best

193565

Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 3 months ago

Muslim wife's consent is necessary for her husband to engage in Mut'ah with a woman from People of Book (Christian, Jews, Majos). 

Wassalam.

194173

Zaid Alsalami, Shaykh Dr Zaid Alsalami is an Iraqi born scholar, raised in Australia. He obtained a BA from Al-Mustafa University, Qom, and an MA from the Islamic College in London. He also obtained a PhD from... Answered 4 months ago

Bismihi ta'āla

If the time period is over, you must recite a new contract, with new time-period and new mahr.

If you still have some time left for the temporary contract (let's say2 days left), and you both decide to extend, the man frees the woman for the remaining period, then recite the new contract together.

And Allah knows best

193145

Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answer updated 4 months ago

Intimate talk between male and female is not permissible with out Mut’a;h agreement (Aqd). You both should agree for a time frame and Mahr (Dowert) then recite the Agreement if Mut;ah either yourselves or through your proxies. She tells you: Zawwajtoka Nafis Akal Mahr Al-Ma'loom lil Muddatil Ma'loomah. You must reply her: Qabiltu al0Tazweej Li Nafis Akal Muddatil Ma'loomah 'alal Mahril Ma'loom..

Wassalam 

193099

Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 4 months ago

No. She must observe the waiting period (Iddah) after the end of the Mut'ah fixed time. The Iddah time required is two menstrual periods.

Wassalam.

192537

Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 4 months ago

If she was never married before, she still needs the permission of her father or paternal grand father. If her father or paternal grand father disagree for invalid reason, then has the right to decide for herself. If you have a Muslim wife, you need her permission to have a Mut’ah marriage with Christian or Jewish female.

Wassalam.

148021

Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 5 months ago

You can visit Masjids  and Islamic centers and seek help from people there to guide you. They should know and trust you.

Wassalam.