Daughter

Child care is more important and it is the best you can do for your child and family and you future in this life and hereafter. Whatever money you might get from working will never compensate the loss of your child when you spend long hours away from him. Child care and looking after your children in fact is the best investment.

Wassalam.

Supporting your daughter through the loss of her friends can be challenging, but your presence and understanding can make a significant difference. Here are some ways you can help her cope and process her feelings:

1. **Create a Safe Space for Expression**: Encourage her to share her feelings about her friends and their deaths. Let her know that it's okay to feel sad, angry, confused, or even guilty. Listen actively without judgment, and validate her emotions.

2. **Encourage Open Conversations**: Discuss the circumstances surrounding her friends' deaths if she is comfortable. Help her understand that sometimes, life can be unpredictable and bitter. Be honest, but also sensitive to her emotional state.

3. **Share Your Own Feelings**: Let her know that you also feel sad about the loss. Sharing your own emotions can help her feel less isolated in her grief.

4. **Seek Professional Support**: If she is struggling significantly, consider suggesting that she speak with a therapist or counselor who specializes in grief. Professional support can provide her with coping strategies and a safe space to process her feelings.

5. **Encourage Healthy Coping Mechanisms**: Help her find ways to cope with her grief, such as journaling, creating art, or engaging in physical activities. Encourage her to express her feelings in ways that feel comfortable to her.

6. **Honor Their Memory**: Suggest ways to remember her friends, such as reciting Fatiha , arranging a Majlis, initiating a noble cause work, creating a memory book, planting a tree, or participating in a charity event in their honor. This can provide a sense of purpose and connection.

7. **Be Patient**: Grieving is a process that takes time. Be patient with her as she navigates her feelings, and check in regularly to see how she’s doing.

8. **Encourage Connection with Others**: Help her connect with other friends or family members who may also be grieving. Shared experiences can foster support and understanding.

9. **Educate About Grief**: Share resources about grief and loss, such as books or articles that discuss the grieving process. Understanding that her feelings are normal can be comforting.

10. **Promote Self-Care**: Encourage her to take care of herself physically and emotionally. This includes getting enough sleep, eating well, and engaging in activities that bring her joy.

11. **Be There for the Long Haul**: Grief doesn’t have a set timeline. Continue to check in with her and offer support as she navigates her feelings over time.

Remember, your role is to support her and provide a loving presence as she processes her grief. Your understanding and compassion can help her feel less alone during this difficult time.

We always take lessons from the Prophet (SAWA) and Ahlul Bayt (AS) who faced the most difficult situations yet had practiced the best regency and patience. We as their followers need take practical steps on the same line of faith and obedience.

Wassalam.

Parents are responsible to do every thing possible to protect their children from evil deeds and harmful company. If they are sure that their financial support will be used in sinful acts, they should refrain from supporting the wrong. They should everything possible to save their daughter from wrong.

Wassalam.

Any part of the will is invalid if it goes against Shariat. If the will does not go against Islamic rules, no one has right to oppose it.

Wassalam.

Her three living daughters are her inheritors. If she hs a living husband, he will inherit one quarter from her. No grandsons or granddaughters nor son in law is entitled to inherit anything from her unless she makes a will to give whatever she wants to whomever she wants. The will is limited to maximum one third of her wealth.

Wassalam.

Your step father who has consummated his marriage with your mother is a Mahram for you and your daughter. He can see you and your daughters with out Hijab.

Wassalam.

Yes it is permissible to leave your daughter with her father.

Wassalam.

Your responsibility is to look after your parents and serve them as a humble servant and try your best to please them and obey their orders in lawful matters. Your responsibility as their only son is more than the responsibility of your sister. Doing your best and serving your parents does not mean that you ignore the rights of your wife. Her rights on you remain preserved, although there should not be any contradiction between complete service to your parents and fulfilling the rights of your wife, but never do anything which can harm the feelings of your parents. They are your gate to paradise and eternal success

. Wassalam 

1. The share of the permanent wife from her deceased husband is one eighth from the wealth he left

2. The remaining seven eighths is the right of the sons and daughters of the deceased which must be distributed among them in equal portions shares of one share to every daughter and two shares to every son
 

3. If the mother passes away after inheriting from her husband, all her wealth should be distributed among her sons and daughter in the same portions of one share for every daughter and two shares for every son. It should be mentioned that these shares are proposing that the deceased did not leave a living father or mother otherwise they will also be entitled to inherit from their son or daughter.

Wassalaam

1. Not all Jinns are bad but there are among Jinns believers as well as non believers as we read in Quran :( There are among us some righteous and some contrary, we are groups having different ways). Sura Al-Jinn, verse 11.

2. Shaytan (Satan) does not like us obeying Allah, but he can not freely harm us just because of our worshiping Allah as far as we seek help and protection from Allah (SWT). Ahlul Bayt (AS) and their families were the most devout servants of Allah (SWT) ,yet Shayan could not harm them.

3. Sleep disturbance might have different reasons but we have in the authentic narrations guidelines for avoiding disturbance like: 1. Performing Wudhu before going to bed. 2. Reciting Ayatul Kursi and Sura Falaq and Sura Naas before sleeping.

3. Reciting Tasdeeq of Fatimah (AS) before sleeping.

4. Reciting Estighfaar and Salawaat.

5. Reciting يفعل الله ما يشاء بقدرته ويُحكِم ما يريد بعزَّته

YAF'ALOLLAH MAA YASHAA BIQODRATIH WA YUHKIMU MAA YUREEDU BI'IZZATIH.

Wassalam.